ADULTING IS HARD
Right now, I am tired of being an adult. Being an adult can be hard and tiring and I know that you agree with me. Some times, I wish all these time travel movies were real so that I can go back to being 5 or less because right now, I don't even think I am close to winning this battle against adulthood.
Adulthood is coming with so much I didn't plan for; choosing a career path, choosing a life partner, making friends, making money, fulfilling dreams, the list is endless. At this point, it is safe to say that I feel I need a break. Yes, adulthood is hard but doing it alone is even harderrrrrrr!
Let me explain myself. I've always been a lone ranger, with a very small circle but over time, I've realized that in all you do, you need people. You need friends, a network or a partner, you just need someone that aligns with your path, to do the journey with; someone you can achieve goals, dreams or share your experiences with. It's not necessarily a partner, it can be friends or a network of people. I use to be among the group of people who believe that one can be an island but with my recent experience, I have realised that I need people to do life with.
Life is hard, yet beautiful. It is full of up and downs. You might not see the beauty of the downs when you're alone but trust me, when you have friends with you through it all, you appreciate every moment because they don't last forever.
So go out there, make friends ,find a partner, join organisations, build a network. In whatever you do, Just make sure you are not dealing with this life alone. Be like me, if you've been an island, work on your socialisation and most importantly, TRUST GOD!
I'm sure you'd see the one that fits you just the way you want. Till then, I love you and I am here always rooting for you!😍🥰
Comments
You're absolutely right in recognizing the importance of having people by your side during this journey. Human connections and support systems play a vital role in navigating the complexities of adulthood. Building friendships, finding a partner, and surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals can provide the emotional support and companionship that makes the journey more manageable.
It's great that you've come to appreciate the value of having others in your life. By actively seeking out friendships, joining organizations, and building a network, you're taking positive steps toward creating a support system that will make the challenges of adulthood easier to bear. Remember, it's not about the quantity of relationships but rather the quality and depth of those connections.
Additionally, it's important to maintain a positive mindset and trust in the process. Life's ups and downs can be more meaningful and transformative when you have people to share them with. And while it may take time to find individuals who truly align with your path, it's worth the effort.
Lastly, your mention of trusting in God is a personal belief that can provide solace and guidance. Having faith in a higher power can offer comfort during difficult times and provide a sense of purpose and direction. It's important to find what brings you inner peace and lean on it when the challenges of adulthood feel overwhelming.
Remember, you're not alone in feeling the weight of adulthood. Many others share similar struggles and uncertainties. Reach out, connect, and be open to forming meaningful relationships. With time, effort, and a positive outlook, you'll find the support and companionship you desire.
Take care, and I'm here to support you on your journey.
The mistake I made during my time was not making good use of my service year to learn something (skill )
Was advised about it by a friend
Just working on that road but it's stressful.
Most of all try as much as possible to relate with people that have the following :
Positive mindset
Discipline
Consistency
Readiness to learn new things
Ready to share ideas and opportunity
And lastly don't let the pressure and anxiety of adulthood get to you.Stay calm and positive all the way. Knowing every problem has a solution.
Congratulations my baby Harnny 💕💕💕