WHAT A MAN CAN DO (An open letter to my gender)

Dear woman, 

I know that this letter is going to bring a lot of controversies and argument but need you to try to understand me. I know that the toxic feminist community has made us competitive in every phase of our lives. We hear the "you have to be better in your career, your home, your education, your dreams and aspirations,"  "you have to be the best,"  "you don't need a man to survive," "you can do it without the help of man," bla bla bla. Spoiler alert! Relax and be yourself. I know some egoistic men out there are making our lives difficult by always saying that women are the weaker vessels, women are meant for the other room, women are meant to just carry their kids and be a home keeper with no impacts or contributions to our generation, but the truth is, these toxic men lie!

We can be a home keeper and still be great in our careers, dreams and aspiration. Let's quit staying in the circle of women that compete with these men, especially when you don't have the resources to compete with them. We are meant to grow individually. If God wanted equality there will be no point creating two genders, He would have just stopped at Adam, but God knew that He wanted a show, He wanted drama, He needed someone to keep Adam on his toes hence He created us. 

Dear woman, just relax and thrive in your individuality. You are special, you are divine, you are amazing, you are strong. So quit this hunger for equality and embrace your personality with all sincerity to yourself.  

Sometimes, I wish men could get periods so that they would understand how crazy our cycles can be. Most men don't even understand what it means to be a woman. Is that who you intend to compete with? We are super blessed as women and the day we all decide to accept ourselves is the day the world would truly feel our Impact. 

Finally, I want to let you know that you can have that career, achieve your dreams, aspirations and impact and still be in your full feminine nature. As a woman, you can do anything you put your mind to. Henceforth, when you see the maxim that says "what a man can do, a woman can do better" rephrase it to be "What a man can do, a woman can do better in a different way." 

Quit fighting for equality with men and embrace your personality. Stay strong my super wonder woman,

I love you and I am here always rooting for you.

Love and light

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